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The United States of Stupid Laws

Welcome to the United States of Stupid Laws, where the integrity of a rock has more value than a woman's right to live free from violence in her own home. Choose your state to see a stupid law juxtaposed with a state domestic violence law. Then find out what you can do to help advocate for domestic violence victims there.

Yes, most stupid laws are silly and not enforced. This is not meant to be a resource for legal research and writing. But stupid laws and domestic violence laws have something in common: they are antiquated and need fixing. In many states, DV laws reflect a time where women were viewed as the property of their husbands, fathers, and brothers. The sentences of contemporary domestic violence laws are often too lenient for the heinousness of the crime, robbing domestic violence survivors of justice and safety. Legislators too often don't understand the dynamics of domestic violence, and while they mean well, the laws they pass are inadequate and do not provide enough support to have a meaningful impact on family violence.

This project is a continuation of the documentary film Private Violence. While working on outreach for the film, the filmmakers realized that the problem of domestic violence is partially rooted in the existing laws of each state. We hope this project clarifies the flaws that pervade the legal system and perpetuate harm against domestic violence survivors.

Private Violence is a film that tells heavy truths, exposing the injustices within our "justice system" when it comes to domestic violence. Through the eyes of two survivors, we bear witness to the complicated and complex realities of surviving intimate partner violence.

Watch The Trailer Purchase The Film Available at www.wmm.com
Bear wrestling

Alabama

Where bear wrestling is a felony punishable by up to 20 years in prison and yet…

The crime of domestic violence is a third degree offense that only carries a penalty of up to one year in jail.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. More often than not, local domestic violence programs seek volunteers to help their efforts in serving victims of domestic violence. Volunteer work may involve organizing a clothing closet, answering phone calls, or childcare during the hours of support group meetings. Visit the Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence website to find out how you can support your local agency. www.acadv.org/get-help/shelters

How to Learn More:

The Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.acadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-650-6522

Whispering

Alaska

Where it’s illegal to whisper in someone's ear while they are moose hunting and yet…

Domestic violence is not recognized as a crime against persons. Rather, it is simply charged as a secondary offense.

What You Can Do:

Get youth involved. Alaska is targeting youth in an effort to educate and empower. Join Stand Up Speak Up Alaska and help empower teens to speak up against domestic violence www.standupspeakupalaska.org

How to Learn More:

The Alaska Network on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
www.andvsa.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Donkey in bathtub

Arizona

Where donkeys cannot sleep in bathtubs and yet…

A defendant charged with domestic violence who has two or less prior domestic violence convictions can serve as little as four months in jail. If the defendant has more than two prior domestic violence convictions, he or she can serve as little as eight months in jail.

What You Can Do:

Get Involved. The Arizona Coalition to End Sexual & Domestic Violence holds a variety of efforts to involve citizens and communities in working to solve many of the issues that perpetuate domestic violence. Visit the ACESDV website to learn about joining a committee and volunteering your time. www.acesdv.org/committees

How to Learn More:

Arizona Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.azcadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Baby in stroller

Arkansas

Where it’s illegal to pronounce “Arkansas” incorrectly and yet…

Domestic battering can be charged as a misdemeanor and is punishable by up to one year in jail, unless the defendant knew or should have known that the victim was pregnant, or had a prior domestic violence conviction in the last five years. Then he or she can get up to six years in prison.

What You Can Do:

Reach out. The Arkansas Coalition Against Domestic Violence seeks volunteers to help in their efforts in domestic violence awareness, education, and eradication. Contact the Coalition to learn about how you can volunteer with their office and/or be referred to a local domestic violence program in your community. www.domesticpeace.com

How to Learn More:

Arkansas Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.domesticpeace.com
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Dogs hunting a bear

California

Where it is forbidden to use a dog to hunt a bear, big mammal, or bobcat and yet…

Domestic violence crimes can be charged as either misdemeanors or felonies depending on the specifics of each case. A misdemeanor conviction carries penalties including fines, treatment program participation, community service and jail time of up to one year. A felony misdemeanor carries the same penalties, but can include prison time of up to three years.

What You Can Do:

Be part of the change. The California Partnership to End Domestic Violence is comprised of a myriad of members and volunteers that work together to end domestic violence in California. Visit the California Partnership to End Domestic Violence's website to learn how you can become involved with mobilizing activists, conducting advocacy, and implementing prevention initiatives. www.cpedv.org/get-involved

How to Learn More:

California Partnership To End Domestic Violence
www.cpedv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Mutilating a rock

Colorado

Where it is illegal to mutilate a rock beyond normal use. If you commit this crime, you can serve up to one year in jail and pay a $500 fine and yet…

The crime of domestic violence is so broad that is allows for inclusion of any other crime against a person, or against property, including animals when used as a method of coercion, control, punishment, or revenge directed against a person with whom the actor is or has been involved in an intimate relationship.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. The movement to combat domestic violence would not be possible without those who volunteer their time, resources, and funds. Visit the Get Involved section of the Colorado Coalition Against Domestic Violence website to learn how you can donate funds, become a member of the Coalition, be of service to your local domestic violence agency, and more. ccadv.org/be-involved/volunteer

How to Learn More:

Colorado Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.ccadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Pouring beer

Connecticut

Where if one keeps town records in the same location that liquor is sold, they may be punished with up to one year in jail or a $1,000 fine and yet…

Connecticut charges family violence in conjunction with another crime against the person, such as assault. Even though stiffer penalties were added for family violence crimes in 2012, persons charged with family violence can elect to participate in a pretrial family violence education program. Once completed, all charges can be dismissed.

What You Can Do:

Volunteer. The Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence (CCADV), as well as local domestic violence agencies work diligently to combat domestic violence and serve those who are victims and survivors. Visit the CCADV website to learn about the ways in which you can volunteer at your local domestic violence agency. www.ctcadv.org/projects-initiatives/projects-initiatives-overview

How to Learn More:

Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.ctcadv.org
Statewide Hotline: (888) 774-2900

Drive-in theater

Delaware

Where it is illegal to show a rated "R" movie at a drive-in theater. If you do, you can serve up to one year in jail and yet…

Delaware does not recognize domestic violence as a crime separate and distinct from the abusive act. Further, a first time offender may plead guilty and apply for "first time offender status." If granted, the offender will serve probation under a suspended sentence. If the period of probation is successfully completed, the entire matter is dismissed with no recorded conviction even though the offender pled guilty to the crime charged.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. The Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence (DCADV) reminds us that everyone has a part to play in raising awareness about and combatting domestic violence. Visit the DCADV website to learn how you can hold a cell phone drive, become a supporting member, join a task force, and more. www.dcadv.org

How to Learn More:

Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.dcadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Stealing a horse

Florida

Where stealing a horse is an unlawful act punishable by death: specifically, hanging and yet…

Florida law does not require domestic violence misdemeanants to surrender their firearms. EVERYTOWN

What You Can Do:

Get Trained. The Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence (FCADV) offers trainings that allow individuals to learn the warning signs of domestic violence, best practices regarding advocacy, and more. Visit FCADV's website for a current list of trainings being offered in 2017 www.fcadv.org/events

How to Learn More:

The Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.fcadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-500-1119

Raffle

Georgia

Where conducting a raffle as a non-profit without notifying the sheriff is illegal. This offense carries a maximum of 5 years in prison and a $10,000 fine and yet…

Domestic violence is charged as battery, or family violence battery, and is considered a misdemeanor. If it is the first offense, it is only punishable by up to one year in jail and a $1,000 fine. Multiple prior convictions for family violence battery only carry a maximum of up to five years in prison, regardless of the number of prior convictions.

What You Can Do:

Volunteer. The Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence (GCADV) is hosting its annual Race for Empowerment on April 30, 2017. GCADV welcomes volunteers to help plan, promote, and assist on the day of the event. Visit GCADV's website to learn more about this and other volunteer opportunities. gcadv.org/volunteer

How to Learn More:

Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.gcadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-33-HAVEN

Multiple drinks

Hawaii

Where it is unlawful for bar patrons to have more than two drinks in front of them at a time and yet…

The crime of physical abuse of a family or household member is punished based on the number of prior offenses. First time offenders can expect a sentence of up to 48 hours in jail. For the second offense, the defendant can serve up to 30 days in jail.

What You Can Do:

Stand with Marsy. Marsy's Law calls for an amendment that secures permanent enforceable rights for victims of domestic violence. Visit the Marsy's Law for Hawaii's website to learn more about how you can promote and advocate to help bring victims' rights to Hawaii. www.marsyslawforhawaii.org

How to Learn More:

The Hawaii Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.hscadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Sex in a bus

Idaho

Where in Coeur d’Alene, if police officers suspect sexual activity in a parked car, before approaching the car the officers must honk their horn, flash their lights and wait three minutes and yet…

Domestic battery and domestic assault not involving "traumatic injury" are charged as misdemeanors punishable by up to six months in jail and a $1,000 fine.

What You Can Do:

Join the revolution. The Idaho Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence (ICADSV) recognizes the unequal standard between women and men as one of the roots of domestic violence. Join "Our Gender Revolution" and their vision for a better world. Visit their website to learn how you can get involved in raising awareness and educating the community on gender violence. www.idvsa.org/national-teen-dating-violence-awareness-prevention-month

How to Learn More:

Idaho Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.idvsa.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Sex with a corpse

Illinois

Where It is illegal to have sex with a corpse. If you choose to commit this crime, in addition to an intense psychiatric evaluation, expect to serve up to seven years in the state prison and yet…

The crime of domestic battery is charged as a Class A misdemeanor with a possible maximum sentence of less than one year in jail and a $2,500 fine. If there are prior convictions for domestic battery, it can be charged as a Class 4 felony with a maximum sentence of six years in prison and a $25,000 fine.

What You Can Do:

Volunteer. The Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence (ICADV) acknowledges that local domestic violence programs are typically looking for volunteers to help serve survivors and end domestic violence in the community. Visit the ICADV website to locate your local domestic violence agency and join the movement to end violence against women. www.ilcadv.org/Get_Help_Now/victim_services.asp

How to Learn More:

Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.ilcadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 877-863-6338

Catching fish

Indiana

Where it is illegal to catch a fish by using a firearm, your hands, an electric current, or dynamite, punishable by up to 60 days in jail and/or a $500 fine and yet…

Indiana does not recognize domestic violence as a separate crime. However, an offender can be charged with domestic battery by intentionally inflicting physical injury on a current or former spouse, household member who lived with the offender as a spouse, or someone with whom the offender has a child. This crime is a misdemeanor punishable by up to one year in jail and a $5,000 fine. Participation in a batterer intervention program is discretionary.

What You Can Do:

Join an event. The Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence (ICADV) hosts events and awareness month activities throughout the year. Some of these include events for Stalking Awareness Month, Victims' Rights Week, and more. Head to ICADV's website to learn how you can get involved. www.icadvinc.org/events

How to Learn More:

Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.icadvinc.org
Statewide Hotline: 800-332-7385

Kissing

Iowa

Where kisses may last no more than 5 minutes and yet…

Domestic Abuse is used in Iowa as an enhancement for a higher crime between family or household members such as assault, or for violation of a domestic abuse protective order. For first and second offenses of assault with a domestic abuse enhancement, the offender must receive at least two days in jail.

What You Can Do:

Tell your story. Iowa is working to bring a larger awareness to domestic violence through the magic of storytelling. The Iowa Storytelling Project is seeking volunteers to share ideas and interventions that have been used to prevent violence in everyday life. Stories from survivors, witnesses, and those who have intervened are welcome. www.icadv.org/#!iowa-storytelling-project/ctbi

How to Learn More:

Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.icadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-942-0333

Haunted house

Kansas

Where in Topeka, it is illegal for a member of an audience at a haunted house to "cause a disturbance" (i.e. scream) and yet…

Kansas law does not require subjects of domestic violence restraining orders or misdemeanants to surrender their firearms.
EVERYTOWN

What You Can Do:

Donate. Kansas has 29 local agencies that are working to combat domestic violence. Head to the Kansas Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence website to learn more about what you can do to join their efforts to educate the community and advocate for an end to domestic violence kcsdv.org/what-you-can-do.html

How to Learn More:

Kansas Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.kcsdv.org
Statewide Hotline: 888-END-ABUSE

Spraypainted animals

Kentucky

Where it is illegal to dye ducks, chicks, fowl, or rabbits under the age of two months unless they are being sold in a group of six. Commission of this horrible crime results in a fine of up to $500 and yet…

Kentucky does not have a mandatory arrest law for the initial act of domestic violence. Further, there is no separate crime of domestic violence. Instead, it is used as an enhancement for assault from a misdemeanor to a felony, but only if it is the third conviction within three years by the same defendant.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. The Kentucky Coalition Against Domestic Violence (KCADV) discusses various ways to get involved in the movement to end domestic violence. Follow KCADV on social media, attend one of KCADV's continuing education programs, or even apply for an internship. Learn more at KCADV's website. kcadv.org/get-involved

How to Learn More:

Kentucky Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.kdva.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Stealing crawfish

Louisiana

Where if a person is caught stealing crawfish worth over $1,500, it is charged as a felony punishable by up to 10 years in prison and/or a $3,000 fine and yet…

In Louisiana, a person can be charged with domestic battery if they intentionally use force or violence against another household member. However, this law ONLY applies if the household members are of the opposite sex.

What You Can Do:

Shop with a smile. The Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence (LCADV) has joined Amazon Smile with the effort of collecting monetary donations. Shop under LCADV at AmazonSmile and 5% of your purchases goes to LCADV in their fight against domestic violence smile.amazon.com/ch/72-1015427

How to Learn More:

Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.lcadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-888-411-1333

Christmas decorations

Maine

Where if you still have your Christmas decorations up on January 14 you will be fined. It is not specified if the aforementioned decorations are on the inside of your house or the outside. Either way, you’re going to pay and yet…

Maine law identifies several domestic violence offenses: domestic violence assault, domestic violence criminal threatening, domestic violence terrorizing, domestic violence stalking, and domestic violence reckless conduct. A conviction for any of these offenses is punished as a Class D crime, which carries a maximum penalty of 364 days in jail and a $2,000 fine.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. The Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence (MCEDV) reminds us that we all have a part to play in ending domestic violence. Visit their website for a ideas and opportunities on how to work as an advocate, change the culture, promote domestic violence awareness, and more: www.mcedv.org/what-can-you-do

How to Learn More:

Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence
www.mcedv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-866-83-4HELP

Lion at the movies

Maryland

Where in Baltimore, pursuant to city ordinance, it is illegal to take a lion to the movies and yet…

In Maryland, a police officer may arrest a person suspected of committing domestic violence without a warrant. However, the incident must have been reported to the police within 48 hours, there must be evidence that the victim was physically injured, there must be a reasonable belief that the victim is a spouse or household member, and there must be a reasonable fear that, unless arrested, the defendant may evade arrest, cause injury, damage property, or tamper with or dispose of evidence.

What You Can Do:

Donate locally. Maryland has 20 local agencies serving victims and survivors of domestic violence. These programs often rely on the support of volunteers to give their time, money, and/or compassion in serving victims and combatting domestic violence. Visit the Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence's website to contact your local agency and inquire about what you can do to donate. www.mnadv.org/find-help/find-your-local-program

How to Learn More:

Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence
www.mnadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Beer with a patient

Massachusetts

Where if you give beer to hospital patients, you have committed a crime punishable by up to 60 days in jail and/or a $50 fine and yet…

Domestic violence defendants pay a special fine of just $25. (The good news: they can also be asked to pay for all expenses incurred by the plaintiff as a result of the abuse and to complete a batterer’s intervention program which costs $350.)

What You Can Do:

Be a voice. Local domestic violence programs frequently seek volunteers to help with direct services, advocacy, community education, and more. Volunteer your time with Jane Doe Inc. to lend a hand in combatting domestic violence. www.janedoe.org/how_you_can_help/volunteer#JDI_Vol

How to Learn More:

The Massachusetts Coalition Against Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence
www.janedoe.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-877-785-2020

Drunk on a train

Michigan

Where being drunk on a train is illegal and punishable by up to 90 days in jail and/ or a $100 fine and yet…

Domestic assault and domestic assault and battery are misdemeanors punishable by up to 93 days in jail and a $500 fine, if the person has no prior convictions for domestic violence crimes.

What You Can Do:

Be a leader. The Michigan Coalition to End Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence is calling on us to take a pledge in promoting non-violence, respecting women, valuing equality, and more. Visit the Coalition's website to learn how you can join the One Thousand Prevention Leaders campaign and take this pledge, contributing to supporting efforts against domestic violence. www.mcedsv.org/announcements/8-1000-leaders-campaign.html

How to Learn More:

Michigan Coalition to end Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence
www.mcedsv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Duck on a head, in a truck

Minnesota

Where a person may not cross state lines with a duck atop his or her head.…

Whoever commits the crime of misdemeanor domestic assault within 10 years of another qualifying conviction of a domestic violence-related offense or delinquency is guilty of a gross misdemeanor and subject to imprisonment of not more than one year and/or a fine of not more than $3,000.

What You Can Do:

Foster visibility. Raise awareness about the lethality of domestic violence and help foster community conversations by joining the Minnesota Coalition for Battered Women’s (MCBW) Live Free Without Violence flag campaign. Contact MCBW to obtain your flag and display it to bring visibility and awareness to domestic violence. www.mcbw.org/#!livefreeflag/c4sa

How to Learn More:

Minnesota Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.mcbw.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Old lady farting in church

Mississippi

Where for the crime of disturbing a church service, the offender can expect up to six months in jail and/or a $500 fine and yet…

Simple domestic violence in Mississippi is punishable by up to six months in jail and/ or a $500 fine, which is, coincidentally, the exact same penalty for disturbing a church service.

What You Can Do:

Take a pledge. The Mississippi Coalition Against Domestic Violence (MCADV) is acknowledging that silence fuels the epidemic that is domestic violence. Partner with MCADV and pledge to challenge stereotypes, stand up to domestic violence, and spread the word that violence is not an option or a solution. www.mcadv.org/take-pledge

How to Learn More:

Mississippi Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.mcadv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-898-3234

Elephant drinking a beer

Missouri

Where a Natchez city ordinance forbids the giving of alcoholic beverages to elephants and yet…

Domestic assault in the third degree (which includes: the attempt to cause physical injury or knowingly causing physical pain or illness) is a Class E felony punishable by up to 4 years in jail.

What You Can Do:

Say no more. The national unifying campaign, NO MORE, works to raise awareness and engage bystanders to end domestic violence. Join the Missouri Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence by saying NO MORE to this issue of violence, fueling the dialogue for prevention, service, and advocacy. www.nomore.org

How to Learn More:

Missouri Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.mocadsv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Animal sacrifice

Montana

Where knowingly or purposely sacrificing an animal for the purpose of a ceremony or training in a ceremony in front of a minor is considered ritual abuse of a minor, and is punishable by up to 20 years in prison and/or a $50,000 fine and yet…

Montana law does not require domestic violence misdemeanants or subjects of protective orders to surrender their firearms.
EVERYTOWN

What You Can Do:

Offer your time and resources. Montana has numerous local domestic violence agencies throughout the state that provide direct services to victims and survivors of domestic violence. They often need volunteers to help with childcare during the hours of support group meetings, toiletry donations for the shelter, and more. Contact your local agency to see how you can help. mcadsv.com/about/victim-service-programs-by-region

How to Learn More:

Montana Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.mcadsv.com
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Driving on a mountain

Nebraska

Where drivers on mountains should drive with caution near the right hand edge of the highway. There are no mountains in Nebraska and yet…

To be convicted of domestic assault in Nebraska, the defendant must be proven to have knowingly, recklessly, or intentionally caused physical injury to an intimate partner. Unless these intentions are specifically proven, a defendant may walk away without a domestic violence conviction. This means a lot of domestic violence could very easily slip through the cracks.

What You Can Do:

Take action. The Nebraska Domestic Violence Sexual Assault Coalition reminds us that everyone can have a part in combatting domestic violence and assisting with serving victims and survivors. Visit the Nebraska Domestic Violence Sexual Assault Coalition to learn about the various steps you can take to stop domestic violence. www.ndvsac.org/get-involved

How to Learn More:

Nebraska Domestic Violence Sexual Assault Coalition
www.ndvsac.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Driving a camel

Nevada

Where it is illegal to "drive" a camel on a highway and yet…

First and second domestic violence offense convictions within seven years of each other carry penalties of up to six months in jail, 120 hours of community service and a $1,000 fine. This is regardless of the level of conviction of either offense. So clear, repeat domestic violence offenders get a grace period of seven years to conduct heinous crimes, and then they can start all over seven years later.

What You Can Do:

Listen. Learn. Get Involved. Whether you want to work directly in the realm of domestic violence, or would like to raise awareness, there are various ways to help eradicate domestic violence in Nevada. Visit the Nevada Network Against Domestic Violence website to learn more about how to take action in a variety of ways towards ending this epidemic. www.nnadv.org/about-us/support-nnadv/take-action

How to Learn More:

Nevada Network Against Domestic Violence
www.nnadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Picking up seaweed

New Hampshire

Where it is illegal to pick up seaweed off the beach. Commission of this crime can result in up to one year in jail and yet…

Domestic abuse is not charged as a separate crime. However, a victim can apply for a civil protective order, and violation of that order is a crime punishable by up to one year in jail and/or a maximum fine of $1,000…roughly the same sentence for picking up seaweed off the beach.

What You Can Do:

Respect. Granite State RESPECT Week is a campaign in New Hampshire that targets teens during Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (February). The New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence (NHCADSV) has the goal of supporting this initiative to encourage healthy relationships and promote a community of respect in NH schools. Head to the NHCADSV website to get involved. www.nhcadsv.org

How to Learn More:

New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.nhcadsv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-866-644-3574

Idiot

New Mexico

Where the New Mexico Constitution provides that "idiots" do not have the right to vote and yet…

Domestic violence involving battery, where the injury inflicted is not likely to cause death or great bodily injury but causes painful temporary disfigurement or temporarily impairs the use of part of the victim's body, is a misdemeanor punishable by up to one year in jail, and/or a $1000 fine.

What You Can Do:

Send a purple postcard. The New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NMCADV) is encouraging citizens of New Mexico to send a Purple Postcard to legislators in support of continued funding for domestic violence programs during the 2017 Legislative Session. Funding will benefit victims and survivors of domestic violence and their children. www.nmcadv.org/the-purple-postcard

How to Learn More:

New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.nmcadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Jumping off a building

New York

Where the criminal penalty for jumping off a public building is (wait for it)...death and yet…

One of the complete defenses (reason to be found not guilty) for domestic violence is justification. This means that an indicted abuser can say he or she feels justified to abuse, and this can form a basis for an acquittal.

What You Can Do:

Be part of the equation. Join the New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence in their participation in the Domestic Violence Awareness Project as they work to foster healthy communities. In being part of the equation "Awareness + Action = Social Change," you can engage in efforts to prevent intimate partner violence, fostering health and well being in NYS communities. www.nrcdv.org/dvam

How to Learn More:

New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.nrcdv.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-942-6906

Man knitting and fishing

New Jersey

Where it is against the law for a man to knit during the fishing season and yet…

During the civil process regarding application for a domestic violence protective order, if the judge determines that the defendant committed an act of domestic violence, the judge must order the defendant to pay a civil penalty of at least $50 but no more than $500. The judge must assess this penalty unless doing so would cause the defendant extreme financial hardship.

What You Can Do:

Join a team. The New Jersey Coalition to End Domestic Violence (NJCEDV) is searching for volunteers to join or form a domestic violence response team. Members of these teams will be trained to be "on call" in working with victims of domestic violence to provide crisis counseling, emotional support, information on resources, and a safety plan. Visit the NJCEDV website for information on how to get involved. www.njcedv.org/domestic-violence-response-team-what-is-dvrt-location-of-teams-statewide-info

How to Learn More:

New Jersey Coalition for Battered Women
www.njcbw.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Stealing grease

North Carolina

Where stealing kitchen grease is illegal. The penalty is up to two years in prison and a $1,000 fine. If the value of the grease is over $1,000, the sentence is increased and yet…

Domestic violence is charged as a misdemeanor ("Assault on a Female"), punishable by up to 150 days in jail.

What You Can Do:

Say eNOugh. Donate your time to Enough NC, North Carolina's domestic violence and sexual assault prevention program. Volunteer at a local agency to work with victims and survivors of domestic violence, contact an organization to help spread awareness, or simply give a monetary donation in support of local victims and survivors of domestic violence. www.enoughnc.org

How to Learn More:

North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.nccadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Indian on horseback

North Dakota

Where it is legal to shoot an Indian on horseback, provided you are in a covered wagon at the time of the shooting and yet…

Simple assault against a family member is a Class B misdemeanor if it is a first offense, punishable by up to 30 days in jail, a fine of $1,000, or both.

What You Can Do:

Take action. The North Dakota Council on Abused Women’s Services (CAWS) reminds us that a great first step in taking action against domestic violence is to raise awareness. With the help of CAWS you can volunteer at your local domestic violence agency, advocate for policy, and/or donate to support the work of CAWS in North Dakota. cawsnorthdakota.org/index.php/take-action

How to Learn More:

North Dakota Council on Abused Women's Services/Coalition Against Sexual Assault in North Dakota
www.ndcaws.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Fishing for whale

Ohio

Where it is illegal to fish for whales on Sunday. (Lake Erie is a freshwater lake and there are no whales in Ohio) and yet…

Domestic violence that involves harming another person is only a misdemeanor punishable by up to one year in jail and/or a maximum fine of $1,000.

What You Can Do:

Support Monic's Law. Help make strangulation a felony in Ohio. Hear her story and find out how to help here: youtu.be/tmy0F5gwVJY

How to Learn More:

Ohio Domestic Violence Network
www.odvn.org
Statewide Hotline: 800-934-9840

Sex doll

Oklahoma

Where it is illegal for owners of establishments that sell intoxicating beverages to permit people to use inanimate objects to imitate sexual acts. The penalty for such behavior is up to six months in jail and/or a fine of $500 and yet…

A domestic violence trial can be deferred up to 10 years or suspended up to 2 years if the defendant complies with the courtss conditions, such as community service or probation.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. Organizations working to end domestic violence typically seek the generous time of their community members. Contact the Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault and get involved in the areas of domestic violence, community outreach, children’s services and more. ocadvsa.org/get-involved

How to Learn More:

Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
www.ocadvsa.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-522-7233

Open car door

Oregon

Where it is illegal to leave a car door open longer than is "reasonably" necessary. This crime is a Class D traffic violation and yet…

If an offender commits a domestic violence assault, it is charged as a misdemeanor, unless the offender has three or more prior offenses. The misdemeanor sentence is up to one year in jail and a maximum fine of $6,250.

What You Can Do:

Cycle the wave. Cycle the WAVE Oregon is a non-competitive, all-women's cycling event that aims to build community, increase awareness of domestic and sexual violence, and raise funds that benefit survivors of domestic and sexual violence. Visit the Oregon Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence website to learn how you can get involved. www.ocadsv.org/take-action/cycle-the-wave

How to Learn More:

Oregon Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.ocadsv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Bingo felon

Pennsylvania

Where in Bensalem, felons may not operate Bingo games. Furthermore, Bensalem has an entire section in their ordinances regarding Bingo laws and yet…

Some common defenses to domestic violence charges in Pennsylvania include lack of knowledge, lack of intent, no violence was committed, insanity, intoxication, self-defense and provocation.

What You Can Do:

Take action. The Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence is encouraging everyone to take action against domestic violence in local communities. This could mean intervening if you see or hear domestic violence, learning more about domestic violence prevention, and talking to others about appropriate and healthy relationships. Visit the PCADV website to get more information on how you can take action against domestic violence. www.pcadv.org/Get-Involved

How to Learn More:

Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.pcadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Idiot wedding

Rhode Island

Where any marriage where the other party is an "idiot" or a "lunatic" is considered null and void and yet…

Rhode Island punishes domestic violence, defined as violent crimes committed between family and household members, by enhancing the punishment for the underlying crime. In other words, “domestic violence” is not a stand-alone crime.

What You Can Do:

Be an active bystander. The Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence (RICADV) acknowledges that domestic violence does not discriminate, and we have a part to play. Visit RICADV's Bystander Action page to access the knowledge, tools, and steps that are useful in actively combatting domestic violence. www.ricadv.org/en/get-involved/do-more/bystander-action

How to Learn More:

Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.ricadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Kid playing with rocket

South Carolina

Where one must obtain a permit from the Aeronautics Division of the Department of Commerce before firing a missile. Failure to do so will result in 30 days in jail and/or a fine of $100 and yet…

A person convicted of misdemeanor domestic violence can be punished by a fine of up to $500, and imprisonment of up to 30 days. However, the court can suspend all or part of the sentence conditioned upon the offender completing an approved batterer treatment program.

What You Can Do:

Be an advocate. The South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault (SCCADVSA) houses a number of initiatives that advocate for victims and survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. Some of these include public policy work, efforts to prevent human trafficking, and more. Head to SCCADVSA’s website to learn how you can get involved. www.sccadvasa.org/advocacy

How to Learn More:

South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
www.sccadvasa.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Horse wearing pants

South Dakota

Where no horses are allowed in Fountain Inn unless they are wearing pants and yet…

Assaults in a domestic abuse case that cause minor injury or no injury are punishable by up to one year in jail and a fine of up to $2,000.

What You Can Do:

Volunteer. There are many roles you can play in ending domestic violence. This may include serving victims directly, educating your community, helping with childcare during the time of support group meetings, and more. Contact the South Dakota Coalition Ending Domestic & Sexual Violence to learn more about opportunities to get involved. sdcedsv.org/contactus

How to Learn More:

South Dakota Coalition Ending Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.sdcedsv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Sharing Netflix password

Tennessee

Where it is illegal to share one's Netflix password. This offense is punishable by up to one year in jail and/ or a fine of $2,500 and yet…

Domestic violence is the equivalent to simple assault, which results in a sentence of up to 11 months and 29 days and/or $2500 fine.

What You Can Do:

Donate. Local domestic violence agencies typically rely on the help of volunteers to assist with donated items, childcare, hotline calls, and more. Tennessee has 38 local domestic violence programs that could use the help of their local community members. Visit the Tennessee Coalition to End Domestic and Sexual Violence's website to locate the agency in your community to learn about what you can do to help. www.tncoalition.org/get-help

How to Learn More:

Tennessee Coalition to End Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.tncoalition.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Man riding horse

Texas

Where in Texarkana, owners of horses may not ride them at night without tail lights and yet…

Misdemeanor domestic violence is punishable by up to one year in jail, but the sentence may be suspended for community supervision or probation.

What You Can Do:

Get involved. The Texas Council on Family Violence seeks the Texas community to get involved with their work in a myriad of ways. This could mean donating resources, joining an Ally Group, volunteering, and/or supporting family violence legislation. Contact the Texas Council on Family Violence to gain more information on how you can become involved in the movement to combat domestic violence. www.tcfv.org/support-tcfv

How to Learn More:

Texas Council on Family Violence
www.tcfv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Monster destryoing city

Utah

Where causing a catastrophe is illegal, punishable by up to one year in jail and yet…

Utah law does not require subjects of domestic violence restraining orders or misdemeanants to surrender their firearms. EVERYTOWN

What You Can Do:

Cut it out. Salons Against Domestic Abuse is dedicated to mobilizing salon professionals to combat domestic violence through the Cut It Out project. As salon professionals typically have more of an intimate relationship with their clients, they could be trained to recognize the warning signs of domestic violence and safely refer clients. Visit their website to find out how you can contribute to this resourceful community in their service to victims of domestic violence. probeauty.org/cutitout

How to Learn More:

Utah Domestic Violence Council
www.udvc.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-897-5465

Women with false teeth

Vermont

Where women must obtain written permission from their husbands to wear false teeth and yet…

Currently, Vermont law does not require that an individual subject to a domestic violence protective order surrender their firearms. Unfortunately, this is a discretion left up to the judge.

What You Can Do:

Lend a hand. Local agencies working to combat domestic violence are constantly in need of volunteers. This may involve painting a room, working at a local shelter, answering a local hotline, and more. Contact your community’s domestic violence program to see how you can help. www.vtnetwork.org/help-others/activism-social-change

How to Learn More:

Vermont Network Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
www.vtnetwork.org
Statewide Hotline: 800-228-7395

Man hunting racoon

Virginia

Where shooting and killing an animal on Sunday is illegal, unless it is a raccoon, prior to 2am on Sunday morning. Violation of this offense is punishable by up to six months in jail and yet…

Assault and battery against a family member is a Class 1 misdemeanor, punishable by up to one year in jail and a fine of up to $2,500. The court may place a first time offender on probation and order treatment as a condition of probation.

What You Can Do:

Drive peace home. Visibility is one of the important forms of domestic violence education and awareness. Support prevention efforts by purchasing a Peace Begins at Home license plate in place of your standard VA plate. $15 from each license plate goes toward programs that teach children about healthy relationships and ways to stop violence before it starts. www.vsdvalliance.org/#/prevention/drive-peace-home

How to Learn More:

Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance
www.vsdvalliance.org
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-838-8238

Sasquatch

Washington

Where in Skamania County, the "Undiscovered Species Protection Act" provides that premeditated, willful slaying or harassment of Bigfoot or Sasquatch is illegal. Violation of this statute allows for a penalty of up to 10 years in prison and/or a maximum fine of $100,000 and yet…

Under Washington's laws, crimes like assault are not punished more severely if the victim is a member of the defendant’s family or household, although the defendant must pay a special $100 fine.

What You Can Do:

Advocate. The Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence actively works to combat domestic violence on the state level. Sign up for their legislative action alerts to stay informed on how your community advocacy efforts can assist the Coalition in their fight for laws that increase justice for victims and survivors of domestic violence. wscadv.org/take-action

How to Learn More:

Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.wscadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Whistling under water

West Virginia

Where underwater whistling is prohibited and yet…

The penalty for domestic assault in West Virginia is up to six months in jail or a fine up to $100, or both. If the domestic assault is the offender’s second domestic violence offense, the defendant must serve a minimum of thirty days or up to six months in jail or pay a fine up to $500, or both.

What You Can Do:

Organize. The West Virginia Coalition Against Domestic Violence is encouraging communities to work with Futures Without Violence to engage health care providers in combatting domestic violence. This may involve organizing training sessions, providing fact sheets on domestic violence, and more. Visit the Futures Without Violence website for your tool kit in how to engage your local health care organizations in serving victims and survivors of domestic violence. www.futureswithoutviolence.org

How to Learn More:

West Virginia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.wvcadv.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Butter!

Wisconsin

Where margarine may not be substituted for butter in a restaurant unless the customer orders it. State institutions may not serve margarine to students, patients, or inmates unless a physician requires it. Violation of this margarine law is punishable by up to three months in jail and/or a maximum fine of $500 and yet…

Prosecution for a violent or threatening crime may be deferred for a period of time. Upon fulfillment of the deferment conditions, all charges against the defendant are dismissed.

What You Can Do:

Be the change. Join the Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence in speaking up against domestic violence and promoting social change to shift the attitudes, practices, and policies that oppress victims and survivors. Become part of the Coalition's work via prevention efforts, volunteer work at your local program, or educating your family and friends about domestic violence. www.endabusewi.org/content/end-abuse

How to Learn More:

Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.endabusewi.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Drinking in a mine

Wyoming

Where getting caught drunk in a mine is punishable by up to one year in jail and yet…

Any person who is convicted of a simple assault or simple battery crime must pay a special fee of $750.

What You Can Do:

Be the solution. Be The Solution works to teach communities that sexual violence does happen in Wyoming, but there is something that can be done to prevent it. Visit Be The Solution's website to learn how Wyomingites can join the movement to end sexual violence by learning about it, talking about it, and changing it. www.bethesolutionwyo.org

How to Learn More:

Wyoming Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
www.wyomingdvsa.org
National Hotline: 1-800-799-7233